Archive for January, 2015

Dude…Where’s My Car? After Hours with Jendeen Forberg | Planet Transgender

Posted in Uncategorized on January 23, 2015 by Vallin

Dude…Where’s My Car? After Hours with Jendeen Forberg | Planet Transgender.

ROCK O-O-O-ON! “Venus And Mars Are Alright…To-night” (HRH Sir Big Macca)


TED Talk: Sex Needs a New Metaphor

Posted in Uncategorized on January 16, 2015 by Vallin

Baseball as a metaphor for sex is all about competitiveness and winners and losers and getting something from someone else. It’s time we need a more mutually satisfying metaphor to reshape our attitude about sex. As you can see by my thumbnail, I think Brit-invasion/Prog-Glam Rock should be a metaphor for EVERYTHING. Particularly Emerson Lake & Palmer’s great line from “Pirates”: “…and any other laden fancy–WE WILL TAKE HER BY SURPRISE!” (Lake/Sinfield).

via TED Talk: Sex Needs a New Metaphor.

Mom, What If I Date A Transgender Person?

Posted in Uncategorized on January 13, 2015 by Vallin

As we ALL know, I’m W-I-D-E open to trans-women (notoriously so)! The proper word is “polysexual”.

Raising My Rainbow

Chase on the beach Chase on the beach

More often than not, my 11-year-old son Chase initiates a serious conversation with me when I am otherwise occupied and unable to make eye contact and use body language to signal that he has my undivided attention. He has employed this tactic while I’ve been driving, cooking dinner and running on the treadmill in our garage.

The other night, as I sat on my bathroom floor painting my toenails, Chase walked in and asked if he could soak in the bath. I should have known something was up; he always takes a shower.

He ran the water, added some bubbles, stepped in, sat down and closed the shower curtain. He said something that I couldn’t hear over the running bath water.

“I can’t hear you. Wait until you turn the water off,” I shouted.

“It’s really sad that some parents don’t accept their kid if they…

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The Astrology of Large Penises

Posted in Uncategorized on January 13, 2015 by Vallin

SAG Mars conj SCO Sun Ist house; Mars sextile Jupiter (AQU). Venus conj SCO Asc (sextile Pluto in VIR). My MASSIVE Ist house=My MASSIVE penis (466CC; 250mmx150mm).

Aestrotex Signing

Astrology can give us tremendous insight into a variety of things about a man. What he finds beautiful, how he expresses his emotions, how he dresses, etc.. But can astrology determine whether your crush or boyfriend is packing heat? I say ”yes”!

By observing the natal charts of ​famous, “well-hung” men, I identified key astrological factors that relate to the size of a man’s “member”.

There were a few planets and houses I knew I’d have to look out for:​

  • Mars: Represents the penis
  • The 8th house: represents the genitals; the ruler of this house would also relate to the genitals.
  • Pluto: the natural ruler of the 8th house, which also rules the genitals.


One of the most common natal chart factors I found in the charts of “well-hung” men was a strong Mars-Jupiter connection.  In astrology, Mars represents the penis, while Jupiter represents “expansion” and “abundance”. You get the drift. Liam Neeson…

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Hot Trap, I Love You So!

Posted in Uncategorized on January 9, 2015 by Vallin

(apologies to David Bowie)

can japan organize to keep a “pickup artist” with a history of racialized sexual violence out of the country?

Posted in Uncategorized on January 8, 2015 by Vallin

I’m so glad that I’m a past master of charm, grace, music, and subtle magickal seduction that I don’t need puerile violence or “Billy-drugs”.


Note: This post also appears at Autostraddle.


On Thursday the Australian immigration services announced that it had revoked the immigration visa of an American named Julien Blanc who was hosting a series of ‘pickup artists’ seminars that aim to teach men how to manipulate women into sexual intercourse through psychological, emotional and physical violence. Blanc, who openly brags about his violent history that includes placing women in chokeholds, was deported from Australia overnight.

The movement to deport Blanc was spearheaded by feminist activist Jennifer Li, who started the twitter hashtag #takedownjulienblanc over which much of the organizing was conducted that led to a series of hotels and other venues canceling his scheduled appearances. It was also over this hashtag that activists shared information about the Blanc’s violent history as well as the misogynistic company he represents, Real Social Dynamics (RSD), which bills itself as a “dating coach…

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Pursuit Of Happiness

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , on January 6, 2015 by Vallin


That Constitutional ideal is the basis of my sense of sexual entitlement in the general sense. I’ve spent decades maintaining my fitness, developing my mind, and presenting myself as the most attractive sexual-romantic candidate I can be. I do have a rational right to assert my interest in being properly rewarded in such a way commensurate with my personality and demeanor.

Actually I’m realizing that “Sexual Entitlement” (and/or “Privilege”) is a form of Dominance, and, as such, is the only direct form of dominance in which I actively engage. That…and my constant RockStar-groupie(s) fetish. I’ve started a kink called “Sexual Entitlement” (search it), and I invite you all to add it to your list.

@SovereignDenizen: I’m personally highly attracted to pretty transwomen, and I appreciate their unique perspective on femininity (and their obsession to attain it). If for no other reason, I’m open-minded that way, and it does exponentially enlarge my field of conquest.

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